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acelan my kind of guy haha come by and see me lol. Quote
6/7/14 @ 4:49pm
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acelan my kind of guy haha come by and see me lol.
BEING A MAN THAT SWINGS BOTH WAYS BUT BEING A straight MODEL ON A PREDOMINATELY GAY WEBSITE UNLESS U GET A WOMAN AND GO TO COUPLES,YOU WILL GET REQUEST TO DO THINGS, JUST THE WAY IT IS I PRIVATE MEN WHO LIKE TO HAVE SEX AND CUM PERSONALLY AND IF THEY WASTE MY CRED'S AND NEVER INTERACT OR CUM I DONT WASTE MY TIME, LOVE AND RESPECT JUST SAYIN
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personally, I could care less if a model is gay or straight. I know it matters to some, or some want to see dildo play etc. you aren't going to be able to please everyone. there are top straight models on here that don't play with their ass, it can be done. as for myself, the most important things I look for in a model is someone who I find attractive and who has a good personality. i admit i like watching guys play with dildos, but it's not the deciding factor on whether i take someone private or not. i'm sure it is to some, but i'm sure there are enough guys out there who it's not a huge deal to. good luck. Quote
ive been trying that and im not really pushin anywhere. Get at me thru message. javascript:insertEmoticon(''); Quote
More than anything else, be honest...with yourself, and with members. Decide how far you are willing to go with "gay things" and be up front with any members who ask you what you'll do in private with them. Some members will leave and never come back. Others...many others...will stay and continually urge you to push beyond your current limits. And there will be those who accept you for who you are, how far you are willing to go, and be happy with what you are willing to do.
If you are a genuine person, who demonstrates honesty, kindness, and friendship to members, you will do well, even if you are more limited in what you will do than gay or bisexual performers. There are some members who will focus only on your body and what you do with it, but your longer-lasting fans are those with whom you can make a more personal connection through your conversations and interactions with them.
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I am confused. You are saying that just because a straight model pretending to be gay calls you "man" and not "baby or any sweet names" that they are "closeted and trying to prove something"? This does not make sense at all.
Each person has his own way of speaking. In some places it is common to say "what's up, man" or to call all men "babe" or "dude". Whether the model is gay, straight, or bisexual, if those are the speech patterns he heard growing up or hears regularly, then it makes sense that he is going to use the same speech patterns online as well. He should not be expected to change the way he speaks on cam.
Personally, I find it disturbing to be called "baby" or anything else other than my username (or a reasonable abbreviation of it) in a model's room. If after numerous visits the model starts referring to me as "babe" or some such, at least then there is a justification: we have gotten to know each other well enough that such intimate references could be accepted without discomfort. But I would not ask--nor expect--to be addressed as "sweetheart" or some-such from anyone on casual acquaintance, be they straight, gay, or bisexual.
And if a model chooses to greet me with "what's up, man" even on first meeting...well, I am a man, so it doesn't bother me one bit. Quote
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7/20/14 @ 5:19am
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I am confused. You are saying that just because a straight model pretending to be gay calls you "man" and not "baby or any sweet names" that they are "closeted and trying to prove something"? This does not make sense at all.
Each person has his own way of speaking. In some places it is common to say "what's up, man" or to call all men "babe" or "dude". Whether the model is gay, straight, or bisexual, if those are the speech patterns he heard growing up or hears regularly, then it makes sense that he is going to use the same speech patterns online as well. He should not be expected to change the way he speaks on cam.
Personally, I find it disturbing to be called "baby" or anything else other than my username (or a reasonable abbreviation of it) in a model's room. If after numerous visits the model starts referring to me as "babe" or some such, at least then there is a justification: we have gotten to know each other well enough that such intimate references could be accepted without discomfort. But I would not ask--nor expect--to be addressed as "sweetheart" or some-such from anyone on casual acquaintance, be they straight, gay, or bisexual.
And if a model chooses to greet me with "what's up, man" even on first meeting...well, I am a man, so it doesn't bother me one bit.
Very well said zyxwv098. The personality of the model is really the most important thing not if they straight, gay, bi or whatever. Models who treat all who enter their room are more likely to get the same respect in return.
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I am confused. You are saying that just because a straight model pretending to be gay calls you "man" and not "baby or any sweet names" that they are "closeted and trying to prove something"? This does not make sense at all.
Each person has his own way of speaking. In some places it is common to say "what's up, man" or to call all men "babe" or "dude". Whether the model is gay, straight, or bisexual, if those are the speech patterns he heard growing up or hears regularly, then it makes sense that he is going to use the same speech patterns online as well. He should not be expected to change the way he speaks on cam.
Personally, I find it disturbing to be called "baby" or anything else other than my username (or a reasonable abbreviation of it) in a model's room. If after numerous visits the model starts referring to me as "babe" or some such, at least then there is a justification: we have gotten to know each other well enough that such intimate references could be accepted without discomfort. But I would not ask--nor expect--to be addressed as "sweetheart" or some-such from anyone on casual acquaintance, be they straight, gay, or bisexual.
And if a model chooses to greet me with "what's up, man" even on first meeting...well, I am a man, so it doesn't bother me one bit.
What im sayin is really confusing LOL i read it. What im trying to say is they tryin to act so manly cool guy to prove they are straight is just i dont like. One's choices of words and way of talking does reflect the kind of person they are so this is not like sexuality isn't that important because thats huge part of oneself.
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