I am one who was raised in a multi culture home. while race seems to be an issue with most it does not seem to bother or rub me the way it does to others. Even though its not hard to tell my ethnic association my fathers multi-race family has always kept me interested in other flavors. I have always wanted to be with a white, Spanish, or maybe a mixed guy who is well hung and aggressively able to have me as his sexual outlet. I guess what im getting at is the question of me being turned on by idea of being submissive to a well endowed white or Hispanic guys. Should I be looked down upon and why do my colored peers give me a dirty look each time I bring up the subject.
This is an awesome topic! Thank you for bringing this up.
People are gay, straight, have various fetishes. It's built into us. It emerges from us over time. Sex is awesome!
Sadly, we have this weird society thing. Black Americans especially have a culture of counter-culture. They often resist injustices which are only spoken about and aren't real.
Obviously there are REAL injustices, especially with the American justice system, but they can also be whiny little bitches (to quote Bill Maher).
Because of this Resistance Culture, you having a personal sexual fetish which makes you "the slave of the white man" brings up obvious historic and cultural overtones ... which have NOTHING to do with your personal life.
I see people do this all the time. They can't separate their personal morality or private lives from greater society or law. Most students were not A-students and most adults are not good at objectively de-personalizing and analyzing a situation for what it is. This is particularly bad in America and, to a degree in Canada. Peepel iz dumm.
It's like they think you support over-policing if you let a hung white guy whip you and fuck you in your private time.
White liberal culture suggests that if you are a straight man who wants to earn money while his wife takes care of the house and k!ds that you're a misogynist. Again, you're not trying to shut down abortion clinics ... you just like what you like.
It's shocking that people who "believe in personal freedom" have no clue what that means in practice.
That's society. Nonetheless, our sex lives ... our true selves always end up shining through.