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Female Performer Chat: Banned?
With the years that have passed ,I have learned that everyone deserves a chance.Even it is a grey user or a basic ,premium,gold suit wearer.But that chance and patience has its limits .I can't say i haven't banned people because that would be a nonsense lie.I hate people that are being disrespectful , aggressive or just come to beg.I have my times when i show without being tipped..
The best way is to smile and respond in a way they are not expecting
That usually makes everyone laugh or even put a smile on ..(just an idea again)
''My room ..my rules''.
But banning for nonsense like a guy/girl member that is being silent ..that is just an immature gesture(my opinion).Treat me in the same way you wanna be treated 
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The best way is to smile and respond in a way they are not expecting
That usually makes everyone laugh or even put a smile on ..(just an idea again) ''My room ..my rules''.
But banning for nonsense like a guy/girl member that is being silent ..that is just an immature gesture(my opinion).Treat me in the same way you wanna be treated
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Unfortunately I have also been banned from a couple of rooms recently for no apparent reason. Milos like you I also enjoy getting to know people and having a friendly chat. Unfortunately there are a small number of models who are arrogant and they will lose the good members in the end. Luckily there are many other models on this site who are friendly and appreciate some nice company during free chat. Hailey its wonderful that you welcome people in your room. On the other hand members should be banned if they act disrespectfully to a model or other members and not for just visiting a model in free chat.
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It's a pretty simple game that far too many are unwilling to play... Show respect to your host/hostess... and tip for requests... 2 simple rules that will keep guys/gals from being banned.
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there's the reason, perfectly explained Quote
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timbo-83
4/26/16 @ 3:44pm
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But banning for nonsense like a guy/girl member that is being silent ..that is just an immature gesture(my opinion).Treat me in the same way you wanna be treated
this is a good point, I've seen many models banning silent customers for not talking. usually saying something about them "just staring" now, to think that every silent member is just leaned toward their screen inspecting every inch of you is a bit vain.
the model must have herd of multiple tabs, they might be be in another models room or just boost point collecting, they might be watching videos or listing to music, maybe catching up on social media addictions, hell they might be making dinner.
I can imagine its frustrating having a slow day with 100 names on a list that say they're in your room, but as I've said before, the more people in the room the further up the list of models you are.
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chrisdk
4/27/16 @ 12:44am
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the model must have herd of multiple tabs, they might be be in another models room or just boost point collecting, they might be watching videos or listing to music, maybe catching up on social media addictions, hell they might be making dinner.
guilty of all of those
- making dinner while watching a beautiful perfomer raises the appetite 
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guilty of all of those
- making dinner while watching a beautiful perfomer raises the appetite
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occasionally, if a model is having a bad day, and someone is just sitting in the room, not participating, the model will whisper and if they don't get a reply they will eject - just to get the person's attention. Had that happen to me. I was off doing something, came back saw i was ejected and went back in -
the model said hi and asked where i was - i explained to her that I doing something else and got tied up - she whispered back that she did not like guys just sitting in her room piling up points to boost other models with and not participating in the chat.
I get it completely - her room her rules and I respect that. I now know that when I go into her room and am multitasking to let her know - and she is actually cool... plus I boost her every chance i can.
Texhoss64 said it best - respect and tip. if you can't tip, respect is free.
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the model said hi and asked where i was - i explained to her that I doing something else and got tied up - she whispered back that she did not like guys just sitting in her room piling up points to boost other models with and not participating in the chat.
I get it completely - her room her rules and I respect that. I now know that when I go into her room and am multitasking to let her know - and she is actually cool... plus I boost her every chance i can.
Texhoss64 said it best - respect and tip. if you can't tip, respect is free.
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-talisman-
4/29/16 @ 10:41pm
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Location: New Zealand
Posts: 40
(whispers): I've learnt to be more careful where I whisper these days... but then again, my whispers are quite loud, and are incompatible with the Disable Whispers feature - I guess it freaks some models out *blinks*
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and here i was ...so happy that a member was whispering to me..that i was the only one having that opportunity...damn it..just damn it!!
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Hallie Steell so mean to me. 
I miss going to her room.
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I miss going to her room.
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subprincess2missl
8/27/17 @ 4:32pm
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Luckily not all models on this site are "credit whores" I definitely enjoy flirting over ogling a performer's admittedly sexy body. I am also not rich and can't afford to tip much but I will tip what I can and even act as a cheerleader to try to guilt others into tipping in my place. My silver tongue can do wonders, just ask this girl's Mistress.
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firenzdragon
8/29/17 @ 5:34am
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Location: @ WinterFell (Wolfpack)
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With the years that have passed, I have learned that everyone deserves a chance. Even it is a grey user or a basic, premium, gold suit wearer. But that chance and patience has its limits. I can't say i haven't banned people because that would be a nonsense lie. I hate people that are being disrespectful, aggressive or just come to beg. I have my times when i show without being tipped ..
The best way is to smile and respond in a way that they are not expecting
That usually makes everyone laugh or even put a smile on .. (just an idea again)''My room .. my rules''.
But banning for nonsense like a guy/girl member that is being silent .. that is just an immature gesture (my opinion). Treat me in the same way you wanna be treated
Ur right of course, sometimes u enter a room and it is quite busy/active, u need a minute or two to get ur bearings, who is here? who are the principle players? So, check in by saying hello, hru, etc .. but then it should be OK to just chill for a minute or two to figure out if you are even belong in there, if no, then bounce, if yes, then start a dialogue, .. but those couple minutes of silence are kind of important foe a thinking individual.
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How would you respond.. ?
Send boosts, tips and make sure they regret it.. or let is go.. ?
Also can't users have a ban list.. :P to keep certain models from showing up..
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Send boosts, tips and make sure they regret it.. or let is go.. ?
Also can't users have a ban list.. :P to keep certain models from showing up..
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Created by:
arch313
8/31/17 @ 12:48am
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Location: US Pacific
Posts: 339
If a model bans me that means they do not want me in their room so I stop going into their room.
I think the users ban list only means the model cannot send you e-mails they still show up on the main page as available rooms. Quote
I think the users ban list only means the model cannot send you e-mails they still show up on the main page as available rooms. Quote
Hallie Steell, can you unban me? So mean to me!
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and what about the girls n the rooms who are not like that? i think thats not fair neither to the models or u and all the other guys with the same opinion... i like free chat, but chat , friendly and not begging for free show or taking clothes of or laughing at me . maybe im so lonely cause i prefer free nice chat and not free shows for guys who dont deserve too much with that behaviour. I hope things will turn into better for both sides yours n mine. Ive been here today hours nobody talked to me and the ones who did just take off show pussy,,,,none of them were banned, i just had to show them where�s the door 1, 2 even 3 times.
life is unfair ahahah and i really miss the good manners,I agree
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firenzdragon
8/31/17 @ 8:52am
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Location: @ WinterFell (Wolfpack)
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and what about the girls n the rooms who are not like that? i think that's not fair neither to the models or u and all the other guys with the same opinion... i like free chat, but chat, friendly and not begging for free show or taking clothes off or laughing at me . maybe I'm so lonely cause i prefer free nice chat and not free shows for guys who don't deserve too much with that behavior. I hope things will turn into better for both sides yours n mine. Ive been here today hours nobody talked to me and the ones who did just take off panties show pussy,,,,none of them were banned, i just had to show them where�s the door 1, 2 even 3 times.
life is unfair ahahah and i really miss the good manners,I agree
LOL, I always thought maybe have one of those little rubber pussy toys. If a member is crying take off panties show pussy, then just pick up the little rubber toy and, yep, "show pussy".
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