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Male Performer Chat: Grey Viewers
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gofish
9/14/17 @ 1:15pm
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Have noticed the odd grey viewer making demands and then following up with some rude comments. Sort of think members need to take a stand when they see these things happening. Many of the performers on the site try to give their all, and while some might not be wash board abs they really need out support.
While the site might be all about tips and privates giving each and every performer some emotional support can have a positive impact on any chat room.
Just a FISHY opinion and hope other members feel the same was.
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While the site might be all about tips and privates giving each and every performer some emotional support can have a positive impact on any chat room.
Just a FISHY opinion and hope other members feel the same was.
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I am super defensive, so you better believe any negative comments are met with reprisal, shame, or just annoyance until they leave! 
Though....I don't see grey users anymore, so maybe I'm slacking...
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Though....I don't see grey users anymore, so maybe I'm slacking...
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Though....I don't see grey users anymore, so maybe I'm slacking...
Did you by chance change your settings and turn grey users off in open chat?
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Did you by chance change your settings and turn grey users off in open chat?
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I am in love with my grey guests
I am in love with my greyyyyy guestssss hahahhahaha
All greys are welcome in my room, they are my brothers, and if we know to talk to they most of them could be nice! 
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I am in love with my greyyyyy guestssss hahahhahaha
All greys are welcome in my room, they are my brothers, and if we know to talk to they most of them could be nice!
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Have noticed the odd grey viewer making demands and then following up with some rude comments.
Hate to tell you it isn't just grey viewers.
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Hate to tell you it isn't just grey viewers.
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Did you by chance change your settings and turn grey users off in open chat?
Yep! I went VIP a few weeks ago and totally forgot about the hidden grey user feature until I read this! 
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While some grey users are fine I've had the odd run in with a particular grey user who always ends up in my fave guy's room....if they're not gonna make an account they shouldn't be allowed to be a guest more than once...once their time had run out that's it no more reappearing with a different guest account I wish Flirt could do something about this
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Created by:
gofish
9/17/17 @ 2:58am
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While some grey users are fine I've had the odd run in with a particular grey user who always ends up in my fave guy's room....if they're not gonna make an account they shouldn't be allowed to be a guest more than once...once their time had run out that's it no more reappearing with a different guest account I wish Flirt could do something about this
dragontattoo07 if memory serves me correct in the past grey viewers were subject to a time limit in any chat room and had to wait a period of time to get back into the room. Sadly grey viewers have access to a lot of stuff that was a no go zone in the past. I think the site made the change in hopes that grey viewers would get that membership ...not sure if that is working
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dragontattoo07 if memory serves me correct in the past grey viewers were subject to a time limit in any chat room and had to wait a period of time to get back into the room. Sadly grey viewers have access to a lot of stuff that was a no go zone in the past. I think the site made the change in hopes that grey viewers would get that membership ...not sure if that is working
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I don't understand why they're allowed in party chat they shouldn't be able to access that since they can't tip, I don't see what the drama is for making an account they can always sign up as basic if they don't have a credit card
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I think the site made the change in hopes that grey viewers would get that membership ...not sure if that is working
"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" The site should know better. It has open and party chats to look to as a test model for that theory. Performers are showing and doing more in open chat then ever before with unregistered's aplenty. Open chat has become party chat without the tips. Those unregistered can sit in party chat for a limited time. Just by what can be seen in some open chat rooms the site should be called Milk4Free.
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I don't understand why they're allowed in party chat they shouldn't be able to access that since they can't tip, I don't see what the drama is for making an account they can always sign up as basic if they don't have a credit card
I can't remember where I found it....but somewhere it showed the restriction of guest users. It said that they could only be in a party for X amount of time before they get kicked out. Some models also make it so that guests can't chat, but not sure if that's in open or party.
The issue is since they aren't logged in, they are harder to track. Delete your cache and the site doesn't know that you've been there before, unless they save every IP address and track if you've used up some allotted guest time. I don't think they should be able to interact at all, and they should be kicked from a room after, say, 5 minutes. If they want to go through the hassle of tricking the system to keep watching, go for it....I just don't want to see them, since they're almost always demanding and annoying.
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I can't remember where I found it....but somewhere it showed the restriction of guest users. It said that they could only be in a party for X amount of time before they get kicked out. Some models also make it so that guests can't chat, but not sure if that's in open or party.
The issue is since they aren't logged in, they are harder to track. Delete your cache and the site doesn't know that you've been there before, unless they save every IP address and track if you've used up some allotted guest time. I don't think they should be able to interact at all, and they should be kicked from a room after, say, 5 minutes. If they want to go through the hassle of tricking the system to keep watching, go for it....I just don't want to see them, since they're almost always demanding and annoying.
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I believe grey users only have access for 15-30 mins to open chat and 2 minutes in party chat. Depending on the models powerscore they can block greys
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One time I suggested to a grey user to make an account and they replied that they could just come back and have a different number 
I really think Flirt shouldn't allow the guests into party they already get open chat for free
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I really think Flirt shouldn't allow the guests into party they already get open chat for free
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Created by:
gofish
9/18/17 @ 3:47am
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One time I suggested to a grey user to make an account and they replied that they could just come back and have a different number I really think Flirt shouldn't allow the guests into party they already get open chat for free
dragontattoo07 there was a time where grey viewers did not have access to party chat. Again the site opened this up to them to the point that there is really no difference between open chat and party chat. It might in fact be why so many performers reveal so much in open chat.
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I really think Flirt shouldn't allow the guests into party they already get open chat for freedragontattoo07 there was a time where grey viewers did not have access to party chat. Again the site opened this up to them to the point that there is really no difference between open chat and party chat. It might in fact be why so many performers reveal so much in open chat.
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Created by:
freneticallycalm
9/25/17 @ 11:28am
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Location: California, USA
Posts: 60
Why the Grey User hate? We were all Grey Users once. The problem is RUDE users.
I think maybe they don't understand the rules and I know that models are uncomfortable explaining it because they don't want to turn off potential buyers.
I tell people that they need to ASK IF a model will do something (like anal) and then ASK HOW MUCH that act is. That establishes that they have to communicate with another human being and they are expected to tip.
You'd be shocked how many just STFU after that's explained.
Often I'll demonstrate by asking the model in a Party Chat "Do you finger your ass?" They'll say yes. "How much is that?" They'll say 25 credits or whatever. Then I'll tip.
I'll say "See. That wasn't so hard, was it?"
That basic etiquette is often misunderstood.
If they still are being rude, grey user or badge user, the model can block them. At that point it's obvious they are only trolling the room and that's ruining everyone's good time. Quote
I think maybe they don't understand the rules and I know that models are uncomfortable explaining it because they don't want to turn off potential buyers.
I tell people that they need to ASK IF a model will do something (like anal) and then ASK HOW MUCH that act is. That establishes that they have to communicate with another human being and they are expected to tip.
You'd be shocked how many just STFU after that's explained.
Often I'll demonstrate by asking the model in a Party Chat "Do you finger your ass?" They'll say yes. "How much is that?" They'll say 25 credits or whatever. Then I'll tip.
I'll say "See. That wasn't so hard, was it?"
That basic etiquette is often misunderstood.
If they still are being rude, grey user or badge user, the model can block them. At that point it's obvious they are only trolling the room and that's ruining everyone's good time. Quote
Created by:
gofish
9/25/17 @ 12:26pm
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The intent of the thread was not to establish hate again the grey viewers, but more at the frustration that some performers have to go through wit SOME grey viewers. Yes there are several grey viewers who for some reason are unable to get the membership, but at the same time understand that certain requests of a performer are not acceptable.
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Created by:
freneticallycalm
9/25/17 @ 1:12pm
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Location: California, USA
Posts: 60
The intent of the thread was not to establish hate again the grey viewers, but more at the frustration that some performers have to go through wit SOME grey viewers. Yes there are several grey viewers who for some reason are unable to get the membership, but at the same time understand that certain requests of a performer are not acceptable.
When I read through the page, the "Grey User Hate" didn't seem to be coming from you. It seemed clear that you were citing greys because they are more likely to be rude. When people start talking about limiting Grey Users' access, like they understand Flirt's business model, then it's clear they aren't focusing on the real problem: rudeness. To avoid picking anyone out, I responded generally.
I think there are direct yet polite ways of informing users who are being rude that it's inappropriate and disliked. I think there are more tools which models and users can have like blocking and muting individual users, whether grey or 900s.
A mix of courteous reminders and better website tools should successfully curb the problem of rudeness.
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When I read through the page, the "Grey User Hate" didn't seem to be coming from you. It seemed clear that you were citing greys because they are more likely to be rude. When people start talking about limiting Grey Users' access, like they understand Flirt's business model, then it's clear they aren't focusing on the real problem: rudeness. To avoid picking anyone out, I responded generally.
I think there are direct yet polite ways of informing users who are being rude that it's inappropriate and disliked. I think there are more tools which models and users can have like blocking and muting individual users, whether grey or 900s.
A mix of courteous reminders and better website tools should successfully curb the problem of rudeness.
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